Every year, my Spotify Wrapped lands and reminds me how out of touch I am with contemporary pop music. I’m not usually bothered by this – songs like “Just What I Needed” and “What I Like About You” and “In the Air Tonight” are great tunes, and it shouldn’t really matter that they are all 40-plus years old. And it isn’t like I don’t listen to a lot of current music; in fact, I go out of my way to do this, and have been rewarded for my effort with younger artists who I love, like Sobs and Lily Konigsberg and BLACKSTARKIDS. But the nostalgia train definitely takes up a disproportionate share of my listening space, a situation not made any better by my commitment to farming the music of the past for content.
Since I don’t really listen to Top 40-style music, I was late to Sabrina Carpenter, despite the ubiquity of (and my absolute love for) “Espresso”, and I let my (old person alert here) irritation with Chappell Roan’s public persona delay my checking out her gobsmackingly delightful album “The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess”. As I contemplated my stick-in-the-mudness and considered my listening future, I resolved to pay closer attention to pop – as in popular – music over the year to come. And that’s when Bruno Mars popped up.
I used to love Bruno Mars. His first two albums were magnificent blends of old school Motown, modern pop and gentle hiphop, and his guest vocal on a tune was a guarantee of musical bliss. But at some point – maybe it was the over-saturation of “Uptown Funk”, but more likely it was the utter sameness of his third album, “24K Magic” – I lost interest, and even at times felt actively hostile towards his records. His Silk Sonic collaboration with Anderson .Paak did not move the needle for me.
So, here we are at the beginning of 2025, and I am solidly back on Team Bruno. Just at the moment I start paying attention to this kind of music again, he hits with the double whammy of a pair of Top 10 hits with female partners. His team-up with K-Pop superstar Rosé on “APT.” is demented fun, a completely non-intellectual and, frankly, often unintelligible mess of noise that is irresistible and guaranteed to get people dancing, though also about 99% likely to wear out its welcome long before it makes enough of a dent to land on my 2025 Wrapped.
On the other hand, I’m calling it right now that it will be a completely unexpected event if “Die With A Smile”, his duet with Lady Gaga, doesn’t make the cut for Wrapped.
I don’t remember how I felt the first time I heard this song, or even why I heard it, but somehow it stuck in my head, so when it showed up on a random Spotify playlist, my wife wondered how I knew it well enough already to start singing along. All I know is that almost from the opening lines I feel chills, and while I have no understanding of the science that leads to such a physiological response, I do know enough not to ignore it. The lyrics aren’t subtle – “If the world was ending, I’d wanna be next to you” – but how many love songs are? Love songs shouldn’t be subtle, the way falling in love isn’t subtle: they should be a punch to the gut, a wind-sucking assault on your soul that makes you question everything you ever believed. Any song that hits all the buttons to make me feel even a smidgen of that sensation is going into heavy rotation. I have no idea what my great pop experiment of 2025 will bring, but Bruno and Gaga (and Sabrina and Chappell) have set a high bar.

